Thursday, April 2, 2009

虚伪

即使是用心去和别人搞好及维持关系,有些人就是喜欢搞划清界线。真的是很虚伪!虽然说平时要对人小心提防,但明明都相识了一场,而且是已经超出了三个月,虽然称不上好朋友,但是连普通朋友这个称号都不值得挂上吗?有些人就是不要把心门开的广阔一点,这个样子,怎么去感受到别人与他们交情的诚意呢?这样的人会快乐吗?我也不知道答案,就由老天爷回答吧。

但是要是现今社会的每个人都要这样做的话,怪不得我们今日的社会大部分的人会对左邻右舍的人都毫不相干。回想看,虽然说现代化对社会是个很重要的元素,但是步伐弄得太快,往往都会把一些建造一个真正的幸福繁荣社会的元素给牺牲掉,尤其是人情。这社会还有人情味在吗?“有”这答案是肯定的,但是往往都在发生患难的时候才拿出来表现,平时就不当一回事。这难道不虚伪吗?现代人,珍惜眼前的幸福吧!别等到失去了,后悔就来不及了。

话说回来,要是要把界线划得那么清楚的话,我毫不受影响。因为就是把界线划得那么清楚,才使我得了力量以及肯定去创造我要的未来、我的梦想。这一路走来虽然还不到一年,但是也感受到了相识仅仅四个月的伙伴的热情和诚恳。虽然四个月算短,但就这样热谈了起来,感觉上好像认识了十年的老朋友。这个环境比现实社会来的好几万倍!以每个人为‘人’平等来看待,不分高下,即使有再多的眼泪,但也是热的,出自于感动的,不是悲伤或气愤所导致的。其实老天爷给我们这世界是很美好、很简单的,但是就是人自己本身却要去复杂化它罢了。回归到原本吧!

1 comment:

♛ LORD ZARA 札拉 ♛ said...

Even if the intentions are good and go and others to maintain the relationship, some people like to engage in is to draw the line. Real are very hypocritical! Although normal people to beware of, but obviously have known each other for a, and are already in excess of three months, although far from good friends, but friends, even the common are not worthy of the title put it? Some people is not to put the heart wide open that door, this looks like, how to feel the friendship of others with their sincerity? This person will be happy? I do not know the answer, the answer from God.

Nowadays, however if everyone in society do so, no wonder our society today, most of the people who have nothing to do with neighbors. Look back, even though the modernization of society is a very important element, but very fast pace, will often put some of the really happy to build a prosperous society to sacrifice the elements, in particular, are human. This humane society have at it? "Yes" answer is yes, but often happened at the time of adversity then take them out for performance, not when the normal thing. Is it not hypocritical? Modern, cherish the present you happy! Do not wait until the lost, too late to regret.

On the other hand, if we should draw the line so clearly, I unaffected. Is to draw the line because so carefully before I had the strength and certainly want to create my future, my dream. While walking the road less than a year, but felt the only known each other for four months, the enthusiasm and sincere partners. Although the four-month short-count, but it is so hot up talk, recognize the feeling as if on an old friend of ten years. This environment to the society than the reality of tens of thousands of good times! To every man-made 'person' view of equality, regardless of high, even if there is no amount of tears, but it is also the hot, from the touching, not sadness or anger caused by. In fact, God give us this world is very beautiful, very simple, but is its own people but it is going to complicate it. Return to the original it!